Start here — and bring your family’s spark back online.
Lights On is a safety-first pathway for parents. When the nervous system feels safe enough to engage, courage returns — and learning can come back online.
The simplest way to begin
You don’t need more information. You need the right next step.
This is the Lights On pathway in order.
Step 1: Take the free 2-minute Scorecard
In two minutes you’ll see where your family is right now on the Lights Off → Lights On Spectrum and what your safest next step is.
TAKE THE FREE 2-MIN SCORECARD
Step 2: Watch the free mini-course (included with the scorecard)
This is where the shift begins.
You’ll learn the core truth that changes everything:
disengagement isn’t the problem — it’s the signal
Your child isn’t broken
The system needs leadership
You are the lever for re-engagement
You’ll leave with a clear lens and a calm next step.
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Step 3: Join Becoming Lights On (your first paid step)
Becoming Lights On is the fastest way to move from Lights Off to Lights On.
Over 21 days you learn to:
spot your Lights Off circuits early
use a repeatable return-to-presence switch in 2–4 minutes
track your patterns so you stop solving the wrong problem
bring back spark sightings, even as micro-moments
and stabilise them
Becoming Lights On starts the first Sunday of every month.
Step 4: Hold the shift in Lights On Families (£35/month)
BLO creates the shift. Lights On Families helps you keep it.
This is where you:
maintain the switch when life gets messy
keep rhythm steady
stay connected to a supportive, safety-first community
When you’re ready, you can ascend.
We don’t rush this.
We build stability first.
Kickstarter (Create):
for Lights On families ready to express Brilliance through learning culture,creativity, and collaboration.
Lead With Love (Stay):
for women ready for Radiance-level self-leadership, relational integrity,and sovereignty.
Note: If you’re new here, start with the Scorecard.
Prefer to start with the book?
The Lights On Learning book is an optional companion
a deeper philosophy and toolkit you can liveat home.
Ready for a clear next step?
Take the free 2-minute Scorecard and get instant guidance plus the mini-course to help you begin right away.
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