Bring your child's
love for learning back
without the daily battles.
The first step is changing what home feels like around learning.
Does this sound like you?
School mornings end in tears, panic, or refusal
They've gone flat, angry, or shut down and you can't reach them.
You’ve tried everything — books, tips, advice — andnothing works for long.
That’s what life looks like when learning has become a daily fight.
The good news - this pattern is reversible.
You don't need more information, you need the right first move.
What does it mean to live Lights On?
LIGHTS OFF
Mornings and homework end in tears, rows, or shutdown.
This is a reactive state. They feel drained, diminished and disconnected. Everything feels hard, pointless and challenging. Like walking through treacle in the dark!
LIGHTS ON
Home is calmer. Your child starts trying again in small, real steps.
This is a state of creation. They feel alive, energised,. They can express themselves clearly and are inspired to take action.
THE SPECTRUM
THE PATTERN — Small shifts at home can reduce thepressure that keeps a child in ‘no’ mode.
Our ability to shine and flourish is nuance. Lights On learning ensures we are consciously present, grounded and calm AND know how to use disconnection as a signal, not a diagnosis.
Lights On means the pressure has dropped enough for your child to come back out of protection and learning can start again.
Your Lights On Journey
Change doesn’t come from more pressure.
It comes from small, repeatable shifts that reduce shutdown and rebuild willingness.
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